5 fortællende tegn på, at han kan lide dig

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soumya Jeg mener, at han gjorde de fleste tegn undtagen for at indlede en samtale ... hvad betyder det? 23. juli 2020, 00:41 taylor fairclough Jeg har talt med denne fyr i 2 måneder, ikke mødt til en dato (aflyst på grund af familiens problemer), men vi tal hver aften i telefon eller ansigtstid. komplimenterer mig altid. men han siger altid, at vi bare er parrer, og han er ikke klar til et forhold. næste minut bliver jeg spurgt af en fyr, der afviser ham respektfuldt, for jeg kan godt lide denne fyr, n han sagde, vis ham et billede af mig og sig, jeg er ur fella…. komplimenterer altid min figur og det faktum, at jeg uddannede mig til at blive regnskabsmand ect. han har endda grædt i telefonen til mig og siger, at jeg er den kvinde, han skal gå efter, fordi du kan læse ham rigtig godt. selv til det faktum, at han ikke kaldte ham tilbage, når jeg fornemmede, at han var irriteret og ked af det. han sagde gud, jeg har endelig fundet en kvinde, der forstår mig, men ikke vil have mig som kæreste og siger, at der aldrig sker noget. alligevel når drikke fortæller mig, at han vil sove med mig 31. marts, 2019, 16:09 aria så min søster fandt ud af, at min crush kan lide mig. men han opfører sig ikke rigtig sådan. Jeg ser ham se på mig. men han tekst mig aldrig først. han ignorerer mig lidt. hvorfor opfører han sig sådan. hvordan kan jeg finde ud af, at han virkelig kan lide mig. og hvordan kan jeg få ham til at vise, om han doserer eller ikke? 2. april 2018, 1:51 am marie torp dds tak så meget for at dele 29. december 2018, 07:18 roxy godt det hele startede, jeg er hos fyren for fem måneder siden, og vi er venner med fordele, men jeg finder mig selv i at tænke, at han havde et øje på mig et stykke tid, fordi han spurgte mig hej jeg tror du har følelser for mig og jeg sagde nej, og jeg gader dem på fronten lige siden det føles som om jeg tror, at han kunne lide mig, og nu finder jeg mig selv at lide ham nu, jeg har ingen måde at prøve at finde ud af om han faktisk stadig kan lide mig det gjorde han før jeg placerede ham i vennesonen og faktisk skubbede dem væk og har ingen måde at fortælle ham hvordan jeg har det nu 17. februar 2018, 12:13 kim hvordan i helvede skal jeg vide, om den fyr, jeg er, kan lide mig eller ikke, da han ikke viser mig nogen tegn på kærlighed. han siger, at han virkelig kan lide mig. han vil ikke lade mig kramme eller kysse ham eller endda holde i hans hånd. han plejede at gøre disse ting endda smække mig på bums. Jeg har bemærket, at han for det meste er stoppet med at gøre det, siden jeg tabte mig. Jeg kan ikke se pointen i at blive, han vil ikke have mig til at forlade. så hvorfor er jeg her, fordi jeg helt sikkert ikke gør det nu. 1. februar 2018, 11:39 maryanne jeg ved ikke, om denne fyr er interesseret i mig eller bare spiller, men tegnene er, når jeg møder nye venner, han kommer ud i sit hus og lytter til hvad jeg har at sige, han vil vide, hvem jeg taler med, er han interesseret? 18. oktober 2017, 00:44 cookie ok, så tanken er, at der er denne fyr, jeg kan lide, og jeg er ikke sikker på, om han kan lide mig, eller om han kan lide en anden, fordi han virkelig er i beatboxing, og af nogle grunde beatboxer han altid omkring mig, og jeg ved ikke, om det er et tegn, eller hvad plz hjælper mig, jeg er virkelig forvirret, og jeg ved ikke, hvad jeg skal gøre, fordi jeg virkelig kan lide him.pkz hjælp mig. kun 12 og han er 11 og jeg er så forvirret, for for mig er han virkelig sød. jeg har virkelig brug for hjælp, så kom tilbage til mig så snart du kan 4. september 2017, 11: 46 pm crade det problem, jeg har, er at denne fyr er en kollega. Jeg ved fra at tale med ham, at han er meget ambitiøs. han startede øjenkontakten med at flirte, og jeg svarede. dog trak vi os begge tilbage efter engang. problemet er, at jeg er blevet meget glad for ham. nu vil jeg have ham og bliver ved med at få blandede signaler. øjenkontakten er der til og fra, han reagerer godt på kommunikation, som jeg initierer, men ikke initierer. han taler aldrig med mig om en kæreste eller noget lignende. Jeg har sagt nogle ting, som jeg fortryder på grund af egoet, dvs. antyder, at jeg ikke leder efter et forhold, fordi jeg følte en afvisning fra en kollega. Jeg er ikke sikker på, om han kan lide mig eller ej, men jeg ved, at jeg er dybt forelsket i ham. for at opretholde min fornuft har jeg startet en periode uden kontakt. Jeg er i werk2, og det gør mig nødt. det må være som at bryde en afhængighed. ret hårdt. Jeg har aldrig haft det sådan med nogen mand før! Jeg kan godt lide hans personlighed og udseende og finder ham meget seksuelt attraktiv. at være kolleger gjorde forbindelsen vanskelig, da jeg også har givet blandede signaler! undertiden gør situationen ikke tingene indlysende. selv han ved muligvis ikke, at jeg også er vild med ham! frygt for afvisning og følsomhed fra kollegaer kan skyde vandet! 4. juli 2017, 08:41 sophie så der er denne fyr, jeg kan lide, og han er en glat fyr, men han er altid genert omkring mig, jeg ville fange ham stirre meget nogle gange med mig med et smil på ansigtet, selv i klubben så han mig et stykke tid, men hvis jeg nogensinde snapchat ham, svarer han aldrig. min ven er positiv, han kan lide mig, men jeg er ikke sikker! nogle ideer? og hvordan kunne jeg kontakte ham, hvis ja? hjælp venligst! 27. juni 2017, kl.9.30 alek jeg tror, jeg er den eneste fyr i verden, der ikke bare ser efter udseende. personlighed udgør 90% af en kvinde. Jeg har fundet kvinder og troet, at de var attraktive, men da jeg fik at vide, hvem de virkelig var, dybest set rykker, gik min interesse for dem helt ud af vinduet. respektfulde og omsorgsfulde kvinder er de mest attraktive. 22. juni 2017, 19:09 chloe du er en dejlig fyr, jeg håber, jeg finder en fyr ligesom dig. 29. august 2017, 5:53 lili Jeg har været i langdistanceforhold i 5 måneder, min virtuelle kæreste vil gerne besøge mig hjem. mit spørgsmål er, at jeg planlægger at leje en limousine for at hente ham med champagne, bedes du fortælle, om det er ok, eller om det er for meget investering? hvordan en fyr ser det? tak 1. juni 2017, 22.34 rhiana (ikke rigtigt navn) Nå, jeg skal bare finde ud af, om min eks (ikke om jeg skal ringe ham en) kan stadig lide mig. fordi han fortalte mig, at han valgte mig ud af sin nuværende kæreste, og jeg var ikke sikker på, om det var sandt. før han fortalte sine venner, skulle vi ud og derefter bedt om at gå til park, han får rigtig rodet, når han er omkring mig, selvom jeg ikke ved, om han prøver at bruge mig. hans kæreste handler nu lidt slem og overbeskyttende, når jeg er der. mine venner er søde, men jeg må sige jeg Jeg vil ikke falde for ham. gamle følelser blandet med hans nye selv. 2. maj 2017, 18:31 milcha ummmm ... så jeg kan godt lide denne fyr, han er min bedste ven ex. vi talte et par dage før de brød op. i klassen plejede han at gå hen til mit skrivebord og begynde at tale med mig, selvom han ikke havde et sæde, han ville bare knæle foran mig. han ville føre mig til vores næste klasse og holde mig selskab. efter en klasse ville jeg gå forbi ham og sige 'hej' eller noget og mødes med mine venner, og for nylig skubbede han mig den anden vej og fik mig til at gå ham til sin næste klasse, selvom jeg sagde, at jeg var nødt til at møde ppl. idk hvad man skal tænke. tilsyneladende har han en “ting” med en anden pige ... 1. maj 2017, 16:25 amy Jeg kan godt lide denne fyr, og jeg tror, han kan lide mig. vi har faktisk aldrig talt meget, men jeg tror, at han altid stirrede på mig, når jeg var omkring, og når jeg så på ham, ville han bare ikke lade vores øjne mødes. når vi er sammen med vores venner, lytter han til det, jeg taler, men deltager sjældent i samtalen, før han bliver spurgt om noget. Jeg ved ikke, om han kan lide mig. fortæl mig hvad jeg skal gøre. 7. april 2017, 23:17 alessia så jeg kan godt lide denne dreng siden 2 år. han har aldrig talt med mig om noget i de sidste år. men i år er det ikke sådan. i starten af dette år plejede han at tale med mig om lektier og alt andet. nu er han lidt åben og laver beskidte vittigheder. men han!!! flirter !!! med!!!! alle sammen!!!!! og derudover er han ikke engang klar over, at han faktisk flirter. -_- tilbage i januar og februar plejede han at røre ved mig 'ved et uheld' idk ved et uheld eller 'ved et uheld', og vi chatter lidt gennem bio'er på instagram. ik det er underligt ... jeg opdaterede min biografi og sagde, at jeg kan spansk, fordi hans biio er på spansk. (ingen af os kender faktisk spansk ...) og nu er hans billedtekster også på spansk. idk det er bare en sammenfaldende eller ...: / jeg længes virkelig efter råd, bede nogen hjælpe mig. y_y pleasee ... 27. marts 2017, 13:30 kadence så denne fyr handler altid ondt omkring mig og mine venner, og når han sms'er mig, handler han alt pænt og ting og sager. hvad betyder det? 13. marts 2017, 22:59 alessia han er enten en spiller eller måske kun ønsker at være sammen med dig og ikke dine venner. eller måske er genert, fordi det er offentligt! idk tho 27. marts 2017, 13:32 carla måske prøver han at imponere dig, fordi mænd udtrykker disse følelser på en anden måde. men han kunne helt være med til dig! 17. maj 2017, 17:02 _themenace ja emily gourdin bischoff, jeg elsker dig: * 30. december 2016, 10:21 becca min ex-ven er min ven, og hun elsker ham virkelig, og hun ved ikke, hvad der foregår mellem os, hvad skal jeg gøre 28. december 2016, 10:46 matthew bare én ting, jeg vil sige, selvom en fyr ikke kan lide dig tilbage, føler han sig aldrig dum over at mislæse situationen. Jeg har haft piger, der kunne lide mig, og følelsen var gensidig, og andre, der kunne lide mig, men jeg gengældte ikke følelsen, og da de fandt ud af, følte de sig flov. men det er ikke som om jeg så ned på dem for at gøre, hvad mennesker gør. hvis noget følte jeg mig smigret. hvis en fyr tænker mindre på dig, fordi du kunne lide ham, mens han ikke gjorde det, er det fordi han er umoden og dum, og dette kommer fra en fyr, mig. husk altid det! 5. december 2016, 08:11 sho Jeg vil gerne tilføje noget om nummer 4, der handler anderledes omkring dig - især med hensyn til de fyre, der er udadvendte, venlige osv. min nylige forelskelse er sådan - venlig, afslappet, smidig taler, alle kan lide ham. du ville tro, at han også var sådan med mig, og så det var svært at fortælle ... - nej! Sagen med sådanne fyre er, at mens de glatter med everyrone, er de ikke glatte med dig! Jeg bemærkede ikke engang, at han ikke var så glat med mig, før vi mødte en anden pige sammen i en bar, og han begyndte at tale med hende. han var fuldstændig ikke interesseret i hende, men han var super venlig, snakkesalig, de udvekslede næsten tal efter et par minutter. det var den største fortælling! hos mig var han alle bevogtet, lidt nervøs, genert ... så det er den anelse at se efter med de glatte. 5. december 2016, 00:13 kate sidste skoleår var der denne fyr, der tydeligvis kunne lide mig. Da jeg har lav selvtillid, fortalte jeg mig selv, at han sandsynligvis ikke kunne lide mig, og det virkede bare som om han gjorde det, fordi det ville være for godt til at være sandt. Jeg kunne godt lide ham tilbage, men jeg prøvede ikke at gøre det, fordi jeg troede, jeg bare ville ende med at blive sønderknust. i løbet af sommeren, da jeg så ham, var det meget tydeligt, at han kunne lide mig, så jeg begyndte at kunne lide ham endnu mere. da det nye skoleår startede, og jeg prøvede at vise ham, at jeg kunne lide ham, virkede det som om han mistede en slags interesse. nogle gange virker det som om han stadig kunne lide mig, men andre gange er jeg ikke så sikker. jeg tænkte, at han måske blev skræmt, fordi jeg aldrig rigtig viste ham nogen interesse, men jeg vil virkelig ikke have det, fordi jeg virkelig kan lide ham meget! 3. december 2016, 11:34 zoe okay så ... jeg har to fyrvenner. Jeg kan godt lide en af dem, men jeg ved ikke, om han kan lide mig tilbage, og jeg tror, den anden kan lide mig. for eksempel er den, jeg kan lide, altid meget fidgety og stresset, og hvis jeg snakker med ham, bliver det altid akavet. Jeg har ønsket ham i et stykke tid, men jeg spekulerer på, om den har mistet sin gnist, ved du? den anden (den, som jeg synes kan lide mig) er bogstaveligt talt det modsatte. Jeg kan tale med ham om noget, og jeg ved, at jeg kan stole på ham med meget personlige ting. han virker virkelig interesseret, og jeg synes, det ville være vidunderligt at have et forhold til ham. han er engageret, sød og afslappet. men den første fyr har også fortalt mig før, at han synes at have et forhold til mig ville være 'spændende.' det gjorde mig ærligt lidt ubehagelig. han er sød og sød, men det er bare akavet omkring ham! Jeg vil overhovedet ikke såre ham, men jeg ved ikke, om jeg faktisk skulle forpligte sig til ham (den første). kan nogen hjælpe mig? Jeg er så forvirret! 3. november 2016, 19:25 loriane gå efter den, du kan være dig selv med ham. det føles dejligt og naturligt, og du sætter ikke spørgsmålstegn ved dig selv. du ved bare, at du vil være sammen med ham. 25 marts 2017, 10:46 pm cn se ... nu er jeg mere forvirret, fordi han halvt ja og halvt gør han ikke, så det er ligesom han kan lide mig, men her er en mur ... meh . ️ 23. september 2016, 06:18 tara ok, så siden jeg flyttede til mit område for næsten fire år siden, har jeg kørt ind til denne fyr. Jeg er nødt til at gå forbi hans hus for at gå til stranden, og han surfer, så han er også altid på stranden. nogle gange stødte jeg på ham så ofte, at det var akavet. Jeg har aldrig forsøgt at tale med ham og har altid undgået øjenkontakt, han forsøgte at sige hej et par gange og forsøgte at tale med mig en gang, men jeg sprang ham lidt af. Jeg var ikke interesseret i nogen fyr, og min tillid var lidt lav på det tidspunkt ... Jeg følte ikke noget med ham, men følte en slags 'vibe' fra ham. Jeg vidste ikke, hvordan jeg skulle fortolke det. alligevel ... Jeg flyttede til et andet område og så ham ikke i omkring et år .. og en dag gik jeg med min hund, og jeg så ham stå der ude af hjørnet af øjet og stirre på mig, han var sammen med sin hund ... som at vente på mig at komme over ... så det gjorde jeg, og han startede en samtale med mig, men erkendte aldrig, at han huskede mig…. som for mig var akavet ... han talte om sin hund og fortsatte lidt, spurgte derefter hvad jeg lavede i weekenden, så spurgte han, hvor jeg var fra, og jeg fortalte ham, at jeg huskede ham fra det gamle område, men nu bor jeg nede vejen, og han virkede chokeret. han forsøgte at stille mig spørgsmål, men jeg gav ham ikke meget at arbejde med, fordi jeg ikke vidste, om han flirtede eller var venlig ... han forsøgte at holde samtalen i gang længere end den skulle have og sagde til sidst 'okay Jeg kan muligvis se dig rundt engang 'og af en eller anden grund, efter at han forlod denne kemi, kom det bare over mig, og jeg følte, at amor ramte mig med sin forbandede pil ... og jeg var så lukket! stå offish…. Jeg gav ham ikke noget at arbejde med, jeg var for forvirret, og nu har jeg ikke været i stand til at stoppe med at tænke på ham, og hvordan jeg måske aldrig vil se ham igen. lyder det som om han faktisk kan lide mig eller har jeg analyseret det? hvad skal jeg gøre? Jeg har ikke haft noget godt i ti år, og den jeg endte med at være fantastisk, og jeg var lige så god. 15. september 2016, 04:03 vassi hej, så jeg har en enorm forelskelse i denne fyr. Vi har lige talt en gang i alt 1 års viden (bare så du ved, at det var et af de bedste, jeg nogensinde har haft, masser af øjenkontakt). i går havde jeg travlt med at læse i biblioteket, og jeg hørte ham. han var i samme gang med en ven, jeg blev overrasket over hjertet, der bankede hurtigere, og han så helt rolig ud. så knækker han en vittighed, og jeg tror, han stirrede på mig, så jeg smilede og så på ham. han kiggede væk og bad sin ven om at gøre det hurtigt. og derefter hurtigt gået. skal jeg have håb eller prøve at fokusere på at komme videre? 10. september 2016, 10:22 am alessia hvis du stadig tænker på ham, ja. henvende sig til ham. kun hvis du stadig tænker på ham. <3 (dette er noget andet) idk hvad der foregår i dit liv, men prøv altid at finde lykke i alt! (Jeg er bare i humør til at tale sådan og alt, ved du. For at gøre nogens dag lysere.) Husk at der er nogen derude, der virkelig elsker dig. måske fandt du ham nu. måske er den, du dater lige nu, ikke den, du faktisk fortjener. måske finder du den rigtige fyr i fremtiden. måske er han foran dig, og du var ikke klar over det. uanset hvad, vi vil altid elske dig, og du går pige! du er fantastisk! 27. marts 2017, 13:41 madison er sammen med denne fyr, men jeg tror, han kan ikke lide mig mere, og han gør ikke nogen indsats for at se, snak, eller se på mig, og han gør små bevægelser, men så stopper han bare helt op, og hver gang han gør de bevægelser, giver de mig håb, så ... * bam * jeg har ikke mere håb, og jeg er tilbage og spekulerer på, om jeg skal bryde op med ham ……… .. hjælp venligst !!!!!!!. Ja eller nej???? 29. juni 2016, 23:10 joshua der er denne søde pige i min klasse, og dybest set kan jeg virkelig godt lide hende, og hun er den slags, der virker meget tilbageholdt og ligesom ikke åbner ikke op, så jeg havde naturligvis ikke forventet nogen synger fra hende, men en dag overraskede hun mig virkelig ved at bede mig om at tilføje hende på snapchat, men på grund af en krise kunne jeg ikke, og den næste dag ignorerede hun mig fuldstændigt og hun startede aging mærkeligt, så bagefter fortalte jeg hende om, hvordan jeg forsøgte at tilføje hende, men undlod at gøre det, og bad hende om at tilføje mig, og hun sagde, at hun ville, men hun har ikke tilføjet mig, og sagen er, at hun normalt gør hvad jeg laver hun spejler nogle gange min bevægelse, så hvis jeg skulle begynde at lege med en blyant, gør hun det samme, og hun husker tynde, jeg sagde for flere uger siden, tror du, at hun endda kan lide mig, og hvis det er tilfældet, hvorfor handler hun nu om dage 3. juni 2016, 21:02 sam hvis hun virkelig er en genert og reserveret person, så må det have taget hende en masse coura ge for at fortælle dig at tilføje hende på snapchat. tekniske problemer eller ej, hun må have set dig ikke tilføje hende som et tegn på uinteresse. sagen er, at genert folk bliver modløs meget hurtigt (jeg ved, for jeg er en genert person). I øjeblikket er dit bedste valg at forblive vedholdende og ikke give op så let. hvis hun virkelig kan lide dig, åbner hun sig før eller senere, ellers hårdt held. alle de bedste venner 5. juni 2016, 02:10 madison joshua, hvis du kan lide hende, når du har lyst til at fortælle hende, der måske trækker hende til side en dag eller siger ”Hej, kan jeg tale med dig?”. Hvis hun siger “jeg kan også lide dig” eller “gør du det?” så yay din i lykke pit. også bare så du ved, om hun studder eller rødmer eller løber væk eller måske endda bare står der overrasket, gør ikke noget for at sprænge din chance !! jeg rødmer undertiden og løber væk, fordi jeg tænker ved mig selv ”sagde han det bare?” så hvis du kan lide hende godt, men bare ikke blæse det …… og måske kan du spørge hende ud, ved du det! godt held joshua og måske kan jeg se dig omkring en dag !! :) 1. juli 2016, 1:31 am jeanie bedste gæt tak! Jeg kan virkelig godt lide en bestemt fyr, men jeg er stump. offentligt gør han den 'mandlige splay', vender hele sin krop til mig kun, laver vittigheder til mig og får øjenkontakt - tonsvis. når vi er alene, ser han næppe på mig, mumler han og stirrer på jorden. betyder det, at han ikke kan lide mig 'på den måde', fordi han undgår intime indstillinger, eller at han ikke kan lide mig, men er bange for intime indstillinger? Jeg er så glad for at 'kende' ham, som venner eller mere, jeg vil ikke understrege forholdet. bare taknemmelig for, at han er i mit liv. men hvis han er interesseret, er jeg bestemt også det! ingen idé om, hvordan han skal fortolke hans polære reaktioner ……. vi er begge middelaldrende og skilt. 2. maj 2016, 20:05 andrea Jeg bemærkede en fyr, der ville se på mig langt væk, men jeg ignorerede ham. men andet semester bemærkede jeg, at han kiggede oftere på mig, og jeg begyndte at interessere mig, men så fandt jeg ud af, at han havde en kæreste, og de har gået ud i mere end et år. som forvirrede mig, fordi han altid kiggede på mig under timen, fandt jeg ud af, at han var ret smart, og jeg interesserede mig mere for ham, men da jeg fandt ud af, at han havde en kæreste, bakkede jeg ud. han ser normalt på mig, men gør det ikke indlysende, men nogle gange er det. nogle gange placerer han sig mod mig, selvom vi ikke er i samme gruppe i en klasse, og han kigger ofte på mig. Jeg ved, hvem hans kæreste er, og jeg ser hende, men vi har aldrig udviklet en samtale, og selvom jeg har forsøgt at holde mig væk fra ham, siden jeg begyndte at finde interesse for ham, kommer vi normalt tættere på grund af klassen. en gang børste han sig ved en fejltagelse i min arm. Jeg begyndte at udvikle nogle følelser, selvom jeg ikke ville, og jeg har forsøgt at ignorere ham, men det bliver sværere, og jeg ved ikke, hvad jeg skal gøre, fordi jeg ikke vil bryde deres forhold. han ser stadig på ham, og når han taler til mig, undgår han undertiden øjenkontakt. og jeg er forvirret af hans handlinger, og jeg er ikke sikker på, om han kan lide mig, eller hvad han prøver at gøre, da han har en gf. 17. april 2016, 16:03 amy der er denne fyr, jeg måske er forelsket i, og han har været på besøg hos en pige, der er på et hospital, og han sagde ked af, at han ikke har været reagerer på mine tekster, og han siger, jeg vil være ærlig, jeg kan godt lide hende godt ikke længere, men hans handlinger sidst siger andet, han var bare så bange for, hvad der skete med hende, jeg bad ikke ham om at forklare mig disse oplysninger, men min ven siger det er hans måde at åbne op for mig og ønsker at være ærlig. idk hvad synes I ?? 12. april 2016, 23:01 andrea pige, jeg forstår dig. det samme skete med mig for et år siden. Jeg kunne ikke bære smerten, så jeg fortalte ham bare, og vi kom sammen, men så så jeg, at han slet ikke var ligeglad med mig, og det var alt. Jeg hadede ham i lang tid, men efter 4 måneders gråd stoppede det. og nu har jeg det godt. alt hvad jeg havde gjort var at frigive alle mine følelser. livet går videre. det stopper ikke ved en dreng. hvad jeg vil sige er, at du skal fortælle ham, hvad du virkelig føler, hvis han ikke gør noget, du kan ikke bare blive der og se ham ignorere dig, fordi du vil lide mere . I to burde virkelig tale om det. måske er han genert, eller han ved ikke, hvad han føler, det er derfor, han ikke har talt med dig endnu. held og lykke! kærlighed er smerte, men smerte er liv. det er ikke altid, som vi vil have det. :) 30. december 2015, 16:17 andrea hej! Jeg er en førsteårsstuderende og han er senior (vi går på samme skole). vi mødte hinanden for første gang, da han kom for at hjælpe mig på et skolefag, som han udmærker sig ved. vi talte meget efter vi arbejdede, og han viste mig virkelig tegn på, at han kan lide mig. han fortalte mig om alle de forhold, han havde med piger, og han gav mig råd om mit fremtidige gymnasieliv. vi udvekslede telefonnumre i slutningen, og han sagde, at jeg kunne ringe til ham, når jeg havde brug for ham til at hjælpe mig med noget, eller hvis jeg havde lyst til at tale med ham. en uge efter mødtes vi igen og igen for at arbejde sammen. han gav mig et uskyldigt kram for at vise mig, hvordan han engang kramte en pige på en fest, og han så mig permanent i øjnene. i øjeblikket er jeg den, der altid indleder en samtale eller ringer til at mødes. han svarer altid og er der for at hjælpe mig, men han ringer / sender ikke tekst, hvis jeg ikke gør det. Jeg begyndte at kunne lide ham ... dybt ... og jeg føler at jeg savner ham meget. Jeg tror, jeg skal alligevel gå videre, fordi han giver mig blandede signaler, og jeg ved ikke, om han virkelig føler noget for mig også, og jeg ved bare ikke, hvad jeg skal gøre. nogle gange tror jeg bare, at han måske er for gammel for mig (han er en slags klog mand, og han betragter mig sandsynligvis bare som et barn i sammenligning med ham). nogen hjælp? 27. december 2015, 15:54 maryam nikmaram hej. tak for at være der og besvare mit spørgsmål. der var denne fyr, som jeg blev fortrolig med via min manager for 5 måneder siden. han var hans ven. vi tog en times klasse sammen, og jeg følte ikke noget for ham, før han begyndte at komme til vores firma for første gang, og som et resultat talte han med mig om den dag, og hvordan jeg så den klasse, og faktisk gav han mig meget af udseende, som jeg ikke tog alvorligt, fordi jeg ikke kendte ham meget godt. dage går, og han kommer til vores kontor 2 eller 3 gange om måneden, men jeg kan ikke se ham. derefter ved starten af et nyt projekt beslutter han at samarbejde med vores manager og være en af investorerne. han gav mig en slags forsøg på at skjule udseende, mens jeg var blandt mine andre veninder, og jeg vendte tilbage noget af hans blik, som han så på mig uden at prøve at flirte. så kom han til vores firma for nogle konstruktionsændringer, da han er bygningsdesigner, og mens jeg talte til min manager, nåede han os og stod helt foran mig og direkte mod mig og stirrede på mig, mens jeg talte til vores manager. da han var der i nogle dage, gjorde han følgende kun for mig og ikke for mine andre pigekollegier, da de selv fortalte mig, at han er så ligeglad med dem: 1- han kom mod mig lige og stod ved min side og hans krop fuldstændigt mod mig at se og smile meget til mig foran hver enkelt. han talte med mig om personen i telefonen og sagde, at hun taler for meget !! han havde sin mobiltelefon i højttalertilstand, da han nåede mig, og den pige talte løbende om nogle forretningsforhold. 2 - han respekterede mine ideer, lyttede til mine synspunkter om forskellige ting, huskede dem og gentog engang det, jeg har fortalt før, til vores forretningspartnere. 3- han efterlignede mit kropssprog. han mødte mig forskelligt og med smil, og jeg smilede til ham til gengæld. men han stoppede pludselig med at flirte og begyndte at være fuldstændig ligeglad, som om jeg ikke var der. han undgik helt øjenkontakt med mig og talte kun med mig, hvis det var nødvendigt. Jeg havde bestemt ingen idé om, hvad der foregik. jeg var forvirret. han rejste uden forklaring, men 2 dage senere ringede han til vores kontor og bad min kollega om at forbinde ham med mig og spurgte mig om det projekt, som ikke var nødvendigt for ham at spørge mig. dagen efter ringede jeg til ham for at fortælle ham om det spørgsmål, han stillede mig, og han svarede, men da jeg introducerede mig, kunne han ikke sige et ord mere. dagen efter havde vi et forretningsmøde, hvor han og jeg deltog og andre også. han ignorerede mig igen, og han var meget trist, var klædt rodet og var der ikke virkelig, på mødet mener jeg. til sidst tog jeg springet, jeg på en eller anden måde fortalte ham, at jeg kunne lide ham og fortalte mig, at han bare var venlig, og at han slet ikke betød noget. og jeg sagde ok, måske tog jeg fejl. nogle dage efter sendte han en hilsen til mig, og jeg svarede på samme måde. senere sendte jeg ham et infografibillede, og han spurgte mig, om jeg kendte en god læge for hårtabsproblem og talte med mig om hans problem, og jeg lyttede til ham, og jeg gav ham nogle råd, men han stoppede med at sms'e efter 45 minutters sms uden at sige farvel eller tak. en anden aften endte han med at sige denne sætning: der er ikke noget spil for os! bare din fantasi, som jeg svarede på: du gjorde det klart for mig en gang, og jeg har en god hukommelse, sir. og jeg sendte ham ikke sms mere, han har enten været 21 dage. og har ikke set ham selv. Jeg har ingen idé om hans opførsel. tak på forhånd for dit råd. 12. november 2015, 16:16 anna der er denne fyr på min skole, der engang faktisk krammede uden nogen god grund, og han ville se på mig på en underlig måde hver gang Jeg gik forbi ham. dengang plejede jeg ikke at være rasende på ham, og jeg ved ikke engang hvorfor, men efterhånden som tiden gik, begyndte jeg langsomt at få følelsen bag på mit hoved, hver gang jeg passerede ham, der fortalte mig ”jeg vil have ham til at kramme mig igen ”og“ jeg håber han ser på mig ”snart var jeg bare sikker på at jeg udviklede en forelskelse i ham. på samme tid havde jeg denne anden fyr i min matematikklasse, der altid vidste, hvordan jeg fik mig til at grine, men som ikke syntes at være sjov foran den anden pige ved mit bord, og jeg fangede ham stirre på mig med dette underlige roligt smil, der slags smuttede mig ud, men også gjorde mig glad på en måde. så indså jeg, at disse to er venner, og at jeg har det på samme måde om dem! Jeg er ret bekymret, hvis tiden nogensinde kommer, at mindst en af dem spørger mig. hvad hvis jeg afslutter deres venskab med at sige ja? har de virkelig følelser for mig, eller er det bare min fantasi? hvad hvis de spørger mig på samme tid? og hvilken vælger jeg, hvis de gør det? Jeg ved, at jeg måske lyder lidt ynkelig og alt, men jeg er virkelig ikke sikker, vær venlig at hjælpe mig 4. november 2015, 19:21 kat jeg arbejder med denne fyr, der bare bemærke for nylig få måneder. vi taler nu og da. Jeg kan godt lide ham og vil gerne kende ham mere. Jeg ved ikke, om han har det samme, han smiler altid og har øjenkontakt med mig ... han er ung, men vil bare være venner med ham. hvordan man får ham mere ud af generheden ... 23. september 2015, 18:41 alexys hej, jeg går i mellemskolen, ottende klasse for at være nøjagtig, og jeg er lige flyttet til gamle lyme i sommer. Jeg har ikke forstået det før lige nu, men jeg kan godt lide et andet barn i min skole, og jeg tror, at han kan lide mig tilbage. men jeg er ikke 100% sikker ... han ser ikke ud til at følge nogen af de tegn, der er anført ovenfor ... men han finder nogen måde at enten 'støde på mig' eller hjælpe mig ... viser det noget? Jeg håber virkelig, at hvis han kan lide mig, så vil han spørge mig enten på 8. klasses formel eller før vi er færdige, fordi vi ikke går på samme gymnasium ... vær venlig at hjælpe !!! 9. juni 2015, 13:57 daisha jeg tror, han kan lide dig. 18. oktober 2015, 11:33 am jenny hej fyre jeg leder efter nogle råd om en situation im. Jeg begyndte at hænge ud med denne fyr en par måneder tilbage, og vi kom godt overens. Jeg kommer til virkelig at kunne lide ham, og jeg lyver ikke og siger, at vi ikke narre. vi har aldrig haft sex, men vi rodede lidt rundt. da jeg spurgte ham, hvad hans intentioner var, og at jeg ikke ville have noget imod et forhold, spændte han mig ikke, men sagde snarere, at han lige havde fået det. ud af et forhold, hvor han havde fået brudt sit hjerte og ikke ønskede at skynde sig ind i noget. han sagde, at han ville tage tingene langsomt. Jeg var ok med det indledningsvis, men nu begynder jeg at undre mig. Jeg kan virkelig godt lide denne fyr, og jeg tror, han kan lide mig, jeg mener, han inviterede mig endda til at gå til florida med ham og hans venner! men han har talt om ikke at ville lede mig, hvilket forvirrede mig, fordi han havde sagt, at han ville se, hvor det førte og tage det langsomt. jeg ved ikke hvad jeg skal gøre. Jeg kan virkelig godt lide denne fyr, men jeg vil ikke afvikle en, hvis de gir. som han bare har rodet med. del, hvis jeg vil twll ham, at vi ikke skal narre, selvom jeg vil, men jeg ved det ikke. Jeg var lige kommet ud af et 2 og et halvt års forhold i november, og jeg var bekymret for at blive ført videre og derefter dumpet som om jeg ikke mente noget. hvad skal jeg gøre? 27. maj 2015, 17:36 forvirret lah så jeg mødte denne fyr på den første dag på college tilbage i februar. han er virkelig sød, men jeg synes ikke, det er vigtigt. Han var den, der begyndte at tale med mig, og alt og vores samtaler var aldrig kedelige, selvom jeg ville føle mig lidt overvældet, når jeg talte til ham, fordi jeg følte, at han var for varm til at tale med en pige som mig. we have spoken about many things even private things. the thing is, i don’t know whether he likes me or not. i have found myself falling for him but i’m getting mixed signals. on all occassions that we have spoken, he was the one that approached me and i have even analyzed the way he is with his other female friends- when we’re together, there’s always a part of our body that’s touching (eg. our legs or shoulders) but with his other female friends there’s always a gap. he started ignoring me and being mean to me recently and i noticed him flirting with my friend so then i just concluded that he didnt like me and everything that i was seeing was in my head, but about a week ago he asked me whether girls like it when guys ignore them and i told him “i don’t know, i guess it depends on the girl. some girls like to do the chasing and other girls like to be chased” then he asked me,”what about you? how do you feel when i ignore you?” and i said i don’t know then he asked if i like to do the chasing or if i like to be chased then i said i like to be chased then he said “well i’m not gonna chase you” now ever since that conversation i’ve been left confused. to me i feel like he has dropped a few hints because, he was always the one that approached me, he teased me sometimes, we spoke about many private things, when we spoke to each other he always looked into my eyes and once when i was with my friend that he has been flirting with he pinched my arm and said “hey beautiful” to me but then he was like “oh i wasn’t talking to you” we’re facebook friends and i followed him on instagram but he didnt follow me back and he follow-backs everyone and this might sound weird but he has tried to headbutt me(playfully) multiple times but i always pull away cuz there would be this awkward pause and our faces would be really close to each other (literally noses touching) and he would be looking straight into my eyes i just dont know whats going on with this guy, some days he’s nice, other days he’s mean and most recently he has been ignoring me may 18, 2015, 6:28 am daisha how about you confront him, let him know how you feel october 18, 2015, 11:41 am skylar with this guy who im friends with, but we aren’t quite close enough for the usual (how to tell if a friend likes you stuff or even the friend zone things) there are a lot of mixed signals.can you help me figure out the signs listed in terms of us please? 1 initiating he 9 times out of 10 initiated in-person interactions between us, these are way more common than our not-in-person interactions, but i initiate 9-10 technology based contact interactions. 2 listens and remembers he is a good listener, he leans in, and asks questions. he remembers some tiny things from months ago but will forget a conversation the day before. 3 body language his body language is almost always the clearer sign of his potential interest for me. he leans in, constantly looks for my reactions, points his body to me and touches me. his touches and looks never (well 99% of the time) don’t seem sexual at all. he will tuck my head under his face/chin or wrap me up in hugs to where the stubble on his chin tickles my neck, and we hold hands kinda often but he never has touched my thighs or lower back even when drunk. 4 acts different around you he acts different when its just us, or just us and his cousin (one of my best friends), really in any different group. and idk what he is like when im not there. i also think he acts different towards me. he says my name in one of two ways always and his voice gets softer, i feel like in general he is a little softer/gentler with me… but i think i tend to pull out most guys protective sides in general. while im really independent and have a feisty side im very maternal and feminine and make men feel like they should protect me (so ive been told very often by lots of men) so it could be that… 5 compliments he has given me 4 compliments on my appearance, and tends to tease me other times (which are usually times other guys tell me i look good). but with compliments, he has never used pretty, sexy, beautiful. it’s usually “i like…”or you/ your hair looks really good”. or he has said (teasing) “you look spoiled” then he re-worded it as “you can tell you like nice things by how you dress yourself” usually he more makes me sound cocky… {1) “you dont know how to act when you get your hair freshly done”} {2) “you think you own the beach dont you?” (he grabed the sweater i was wearing, when i said “i dont need your abuse” jokingly he was like “i like it! you look good”} so as you can see each sign is kinda there so im having a hard time determining if he does each of the five enough for me to be confident in his interest… may 15, 2015, 6:02 pm shazza ok well this is a long story… there is this guy i like… and i have kinda liked him for like 3 years now… and i can’t move on even though last year my friend asked if he liked me and he said we were just good friends… but this year we seem to be a bit closer as friends and he seems to be interested but i’m not sure if i’m just exadurating the signs and i just really need some advice cause my friends just tell me to move on but i can’t… and when i look at posts/pics that say my happy place is with you it makes me want to cry and just die! i get this empty and hollow feeling inside and i just curl up in a ball and try not to think about it… i don’t know if he’s just scared about being in a relationship cause his last relationship was with one of my ex-best friends who we have a mutual hate for, and she treated him like crap… someone please help me… ???? may 6, 2015, 6:59 am anet minsrolanh i know a guy, who’s very outgoing, goofy, and very good guy. i mean it when i say he’s good guy,because he’s christian, like help people, don’t curse, very intelligent, has a gift of speech, and very charming. at the first time we meet with including one of our mutual friends, we were having a great time. i attracted to him at the first sight because he was so handsome, he look edward from twillight, i am not kidding. when we first meet i felt like we were flirting to each. we talked like we had known each other before. he said my smile face looks like keira knightley. i was stunned by his compliment. the problem is i don’t know that if he treat me the same as everyone else or different. i like me pictures on facebook, tease me on facebook, and we chat on facebook. on time we ended up talking like 5 hours. he wrote me long message, a lot of emojis, many winky faces, he wanted me to sent him picture of me when with my new hair style, he send me picture of weird and funny stuffs and his works, and he the conversation end by his last sentence. one time i texted and asked him why he spend time talking to me, and he said “cuz” then he changed the subject, then i asked him a second time, and he answered “because we’re friends. i was so sad, and maybe angry. why i was angry? because in the i felt like he like me too according to the text he sent me. i started to that i can’t be friend with him, which i really like and i don’t want to pretend to be one. i told him that night that we should no longer message on facebook, i told him i made a mistake, and his reaction was “a mistake?” he said. he went on and called my name, “i don’t understand.” i was very frustrated, i was confused when he said that he didn’t understand. i told him again that i like him since the day we met, and i told him as a second time i said “please stop texting me, you make this hard to me, we will still talking if i see you in person.” he stubbornly continued sending me his text and screenshots picture to should that his phone lowing the battery, i thought it was cute. the story got was when, he stop to send me after he got ignored by me, and i felt like hell that night. my heart was ached. i couldn’t help myself so i sent an apologize text about what i did to him. he replied me instantly and he said “that was nice to you to apologize, everything is ok.” from then we started to talk again. i texted him a first each time, i started to feel vulnerable and awkwardness. i screwed up again. i sent him another message of how i felt that he and i shouldn’t talk. it was so stupid of me. it was the weirdest message ever. :( april 16, 2015, 2:52 am serenity okay. i have the exact opposite situation then most of the people here. i am fifteen and i have a shitload of guys who like me and i get confessions everyday. i finally got together with a guy just to have a reason to say no. there is a guy in my class who at least according to my friends is the hottest guy in our high school which is pretty small. he is always staring at me and he gives me occasional smiles, the kind guys save for girls. his bestfriend usually tells him that he couldn’t save a seat next to me as he doesn’t want it to be too obvious. or so i think. we are the only computer students so when ever we are in the computer science class he is always trying to impress me. i have seen him ignoring other girls to look at me. once my friend caught him staring at me. he blushed bright red, according to her, and then fixed his hair as if hoping i would turn to look at him. a few days ago, he started passing even more smiles. our school has a strict no contact with the opposite sex rule, it’s catholic. so we haven’t talked or anything but he has been doing this for almost six months now. i just shifted to this school about wight months ago. i have also seen him looking at other girls when i am around but that was when it was just us with the computer teacher. i want to tell him somehow that i am not interested. any ideas on how i should do that? april 12, 2015, 8:22 am dallas i love this guy he may love me he says he does but now hes moving im 17 what do i do? march 25, 2015, 4:16 pm payel i am in love with my professor of my college, but this has become public and he has come to know about this from my friends in public. he has privately asked me for the truth but since i had my parents near me i could not confess it. but now i cant stay well anymore and i had decided to propose him indirectly in a letter. is it a right decision or not?? march 13, 2015, 11:54 am hellobaby im sorry but that is such a stupid move. march 18, 2015, 6:45 am betty oh no, that’s not the way… it’s in his kiss, that’s where it is. shoop shoop shoop shoop. february 9, 2015, 8:18 pm hanna okay so i’ll try make this short but there is a a lot to say. basically there’s this guy that i’ve known my whole life,but it wasn’t until i was around 13 i started getting “crushy” feelings about him…and then around the ages 13-15 i had so many crushes as i went through what i call my “crush phase”(man do i cringe) anyway among those crushes he was still there but i never told anyone…for reasons i will touch on further down. anyway so by the end of 15 years old-16 my feelings intensified in a way i never thought possible. i should touch on a few things before i continue. one i have never have a bf (whether that is good or bad i don’t know) ..we are friends and the reason why this is so hard is because i never acted on my feelings so i have no idea how anyone feels…the biggest factor,for me at least is the age difference of 6 years(bear with)i know its a lot but when i thought about it, its the same as my parents.(i’m 17 ) at first this age gap scared me as i wondered if it was normal to have these feelings. i told two of my closet friends one who found it slightly weird but got it and the other completely understood…since i told them a lot had happened..( one doesn’t realise i still like them but since i’m busy sorting it out for myself i don’t want to say i don’t like or do. although i totally do. oh man i do. ) the next thing is that obviously due to the age gap he is further along in education than me and start of 2014 he went to aussie and it was hard…i found myself in this situation where i thought that him gone for so long would make me move on…if anything a whole year did the opposite….he came back for xmas and left before the start of this yr and something tells me my feelings won’t change…obviously i still go ..hey that guys cute etc..but its nothing compared to how i feel about him..whenever i think about him i still get butterflies in my chest. anyway basically… nobody knew..except my two friends and i have a feeling its always going to be unrequited love. but i’ve never felt so strongly and for so long about someone before..my crushes were like a term or two long… this has been years…ive had days where i wonder if i am crazy and then days when i’m so 100% sure…more of those of course…he’s always been a part of my life whether it was him messing up my hair to him piggy backing me when i felt faint…seeing him wveryweek 3 times a week ..for music prac . youth group and church.. i just… i’ve tried getting over him and it does not work. i guess i’m just letting this all out….i’m just gonna wait ..for xmas when i’ll hopefully see him again..above all i just want him to he happy but yeah..sometimes it hurts so bad and the memories ..ah…ok but i’m stopping now before i make a novel..unless that’s too late. i apologize for spelling errors i am on my phone. …and just to all those people out there…no matter what your scenario… go for it like i never did. and don’t be so fast to let go..sometimes its too late when u realise what you need was right in front of you….also if anyone is in the same situation as me please ! i’d love to know i’m not alone..and any advice or comments are very much welcome…otherwise have a nice day. enjoy reading this and bye ???? february 9, 2015, 3:53 am hanna okay so i’ll try make this short but there is a a lot to say. basically there’s this guy that i’ve known my whole life,but it wasn’t until i was around 13 i started getting “crushy” feelings about him…and then around the ages 13-15 i had so many crushes as i went through what i call my “crush phase”(man do i cringe) anyway among those crushes he was still there but i never told anyone…for reasons i will touch on further down. anyway so by the end of 15 years old-16 my feelings intensified in a way i never thought possible. i should touch on a few things before i continue. one i have never have a bf (whether that is good or bad i don’t know) ..we are friends and the reason why this is so hard is because i never acted on my feelings so i have no idea how anyone feels…the biggest factor,for me at least is the age difference of 6 years(bear with)i know it seems lile a lot but when i thought about it, its the same as my parents.(i’m 17 ) at first this age gap scared me as i wondered if it was normal to have these feelings but now i myself am fine with it. i told two of my closet friends one who found it slightly weird but got it and the other completely understood…since i told them a lot had happened..( one doesn’t realise i still like them but since i’m busy sorting it out for myself i don’t want to say i don’t like or do. although i totally do. oh man i do. ) the next thing is that obviously due to the age gap he is further along in education than me and start of 2014 he went to aussie and it was hard…i found myself in this situation where i thought that him gone for so long would make me move on…if anything a whole year did the opposite….he came back for xmas and left before the start of this yr and something tells me my feelings won’t change…obviously i still go ..hey that guys cute etc..but its nothing compared to how i feel about him..whenever i think about him i still get butterflies in my chest. anyway basically… nobody knew..except my two friends and i have a feeling its always going to be unrequited love. but i’ve never felt so strongly and for so long about someone before..my crushes were like a term or two long… this has been years…ive had days where i wonder if i am crazy and then days when i’m so 100% sure…more of those of course…he’s always been a part of my life whether it was him messing up my hair to him piggy backing me when i felt faint…seeing him wveryweek 3 times a week ..for music prac . youth group and church.. i just… i’ve tried getting over him and it does not work. i guess i’m just letting this all out….i’m just gonna wait ..for xmas when i’ll hopefully see him again..above all i just want him to he happy but yeah..sometimes it hurts so bad and the memories ..ah…ok but i’m stopping now before i make a novel..unless that’s too late. i apologize for spelling errors i am on my phone. …and just to all those people out there…no matter what your scenario… go for it like i never did. and don’t be so fast to let go..sometimes its too late when u realise what you need was right in front of you….also if anyone is in the same situation as me please ! i’d love to know i’m not alone..and any advice or comments are very much welcome…otherwise have a nice day. enjoy reading this and bye ???? february 9, 2015, 3:13 am sophia i really want to have a boyfriend! even though i might be different and unique and just plan boring sometimes i sure do hope a guy likes me someday. jehovah will help me with the problems that i go through and that iv’e been through already. i feel very very blessed. what i always say is if a man doesn’t think your pretty then there’s something wrong with him. -sophia january 27, 2015, 2:51 pm sophia i really want to have a boyfriend! even though i might be different and unique and just plan boring sometimes i sure do hope a guy likes me someday. jehovah will help me with the problems that i go through and that iv’e been through already. i feel very very blessed. what i always say is if a man doesn’t think your pretty then there’s something wrong with him. -sophia j. january 27, 2015, 2:50 pm shaz i have been living with this guy for a year now. he asked me to move in with him after 6 months of dating. i’ve met all his family members, attended family gatherings, etc. we’re planning on getting married this christmas. what i don’t understand is, sometimes when i am on duty travels, he makes plans to travel to other cities and let’s me know like on the day or a day before his departure. i also realised that he doesn’t give me gifts or take me out or remember special occassions. the funny thing is he hasn’t met my family. he talks of meetng them and made an effort but one the day we got into an arguement and just forgot the whole idea. he never talks about it again. last time, i saw a booking he made to fly to brisbane for 5days and this is around the time that i get to do my next duty travel. he hasn’t told me about this trip yet. aren;t people living together in a relationship not supposed to keep secrets? i don’t understand this… does he really love me? if he doesn’t then why does he want me to live with him and marry him even… i don’t understand this! please somebody out there help me understand this person… january 22, 2015, 6:29 pm irisheyes2c oh, honey this doesn’t sound good at all. if i were you i would look for an apartment. tell him that it bothers you and if he is evasive or won’t answer the question, avoids eye contact with you, then there is something very wrong. i wouldn’t want you to not have an alternative place to live. i don’t trust most people in general and he sounds fishy. is he in the military too? think with your head and not your heart and the answer will be there. march 21, 2015, 4:35 pm mary i believe since the relationship have move to the exclusive one it should be no secret with both of you hold off from marriage see what happen. december 18, 2016, 4:45 pm cristal so this guy is constantly talking to me and he tries to touch me accidently he even lays his head in my desk and pushes his legs up against mine, he’s always there for me and i’m always there for him. yet he’s only there for me regarding school. and he has a girlfriend although i can tell he really likes me and he’s not once mentioned his gf in front of me. he’s gorgeous and amazing, but he’s taken. she’s really pretty too. i have no idea what to do january 18, 2015, 8:03 pm britney let him go he has a gf january 3, 2016, 7:16 pm jordan theres a guy in my life that i work with who acts exactly like this but he never asks me out outside of work so a large part of me doesn’t really believe he likes me… january 9, 2015, 7:36 pm sue dear innocent people if someone likes or loves you for real! they will hang around you like a fly around food…and many more signs. but better than signs don’t assume they like you, don’t fall for them unless their own mouth tells you to your face : ” i love you”. january 3, 2015, 4:08 pm sares this is so helpful, thanks! but i need some serious guy advice! i have been hanging out with this guy for a couple of months. he is super shy (both self admitted and told to me by friends). i met him in january but he didn’t really talk to me in any real way until august. we have been hanging out first fortnightly then weekly and now a few times a week since then. we’ve had what my friends call “sneaky dates” where we have started by just hanging out to do a work related task together and then he’s taken me somewhere lovely (think candles and proper restaurant) for dinner. for christmas he bought me the most thoughtful gift from my favourite shop – despite him not being into christmas (his family give cash not gifts). he calls me every day – sometimes two or three times a day. all of these signs tell me he likes me. but then he has made no move on me. he talks about how he’s never been happier than when he broke up with his ex (as he doesn’t have to “check in” with anyone anymore and he can do what he wants whenever he wants) and he talks about “hot” women (not in a dating sense just how hot they are and how he should get some) he is completely respectful to me so i don’t feel like he is friend zoning me – i just don’t understand what message he’s trying to give me when he talks about picking up a hot chick (note he hasn’t actually made any move on these girls and doesn’t even talk to other women when i’m around!) so guys out there – what’s your advice? what do i do?! thanks in advance! december 28, 2014, 6:44 pm juno ask him out. he’s shy and he’s giving you hints that he likes you. shy guys have a really hard time breaking out of that shell and making the move. so maybe you should make the move if you like him back. ask him directly if he likes you and wants to try dating you. he’ll appreciate your honesty and find it easier to open up to you once you break the barrier. december 30, 2014, 2:40 pm happiness hey! im just a curious abt something hahaha. but its just that this guy in my school..i mean..we dont even talk (well,only during my orientation day in my school when he asked im from which country) that moment onwards ive had this tingly crush on him till today. no progress. its okay. the thing is we always bump into each other everyday in school be it at the canteen or library. this is when it starts to get interesting. we would secretly look at each other (nope,im not daydreaming but we usually caught each oher looking at the other) but no smiles just a straight face and this happen all the time. sometimes when we’re alone we would be in the other’s face like walkng close by etc hahaaha. its kinda fun actually and its a mystery as well. the other day i was standing in front of the counter where they put napkins there and out of nowhere this guy came without even saying excuse me just took the tissue like its nothing. mannnn i go crazy everyday with these gestures. what is thissssss november 23, 2014, 7:07 am mary great “post!!” december 6, 2014, 1:54 am dehwl ass mannnn december 18, 2014, 7:42 am please help i knew this guy seince 5th grade. in 5th grade my friend told me he liked me. now in 6th grade during gym i was talking about this other guy because my friend was wondering how i knew him and the guy i knew science 5th grade looked back at me and overheard me talking about this other guy and now he stopped talking to me. doe he still like me or is he jealous that i was talking about another guy? please help me . november 15, 2014, 11:57 am it sucks you should go tell him you like him, that is if you do. he is probably jealous & still likes you & thinks you like the guy you were talking about. i know because it happened to me but i was too late in telling him iike him & so he kind of moved on. our friendship suffered because of jealousy, he did say hi to me today but it was brief, no more long conversations, we seem like acquaintances now, it sucks. march 4, 2015, 12:33 am singleandhappy speaking as someone who has been completely single for the past 20 years and will stay that way, i do not understand the headline of this article. the headline says “5 telltale signs he likes you,” and then the first thing says this: “he initiates- if you’re at a party, he comes up to you and strikes up a conversation.” so you’ve never met and are already talking about “liking” someone? there is no way to know if you like someone just by seeing them with your eyes. seeing is “physical attraction,” especially if you have never met. it’s not “like.” the only way to know if you like someone is a whole lotta talking to one another, watching how they react to you and others in different situations, etc. stay away from anything physical/sexual and just talk with them. a lot. then you’ll know if you like them or they like you. november 12, 2014, 11:06 pm mary absolutely, singleandhappy! no doubt! yep! u bet ya! now, that’s the “way” to “do” it–finding out if someone likes you or not!!– december 28, 2014, 10:42 pm sara i’m going through some relationship issues and i need major help. i’ve been dating a guy since 6 months and everything seemed great at first but then things started changing. i know i made a mistake by being very needy and kept bugging him. above all i used to talk to my friends about my relationship issues and obe day he read my conversation and got pissed but that eventually got sorted. 3 days back he told me he isn’t over his ex as it was a long relationship of 3 years and he needed time. when he started with me he was ready to move on but my behavior is disturbing him and now he thinks we rushed things and should have gotten to know each other as he isn’t able to figure out how to handle me. he asked me to start over as friends. i clearly asked him if he was seeing is ex again but he denied it and said that he is with me only . also he agreed when i asked that what he wants is that we remain in a relationship but kind off take a break as friends. anyways then i didn’t contact him and after one day just one day he texts me and tells me he misses me. and then he asks me “what if after some time i want to get back with you. and you like someone else” and he at one point is calling me his girl and at the same time a friend. he made it clear he’s doing it so that when a guy asks me if i’m single i have no . Jeg kan virkelig godt lide ham. we’re having casual talks and i think we might connect at a different level this time. right now we’re having major exams and maybe he’s stressed out or something? i’m so confused about what he wants. i really really like this guy and i want him back in my life. please please help me out and tell me how to get him back then we were also having a conversation about a random topic and he said that happens between couples. so i said so we’re not a couple and he’s like we’re on a break. i don’t know what’s going on and it’s effecting me and my studies november 7, 2014, 11:09 pm bo hi, i am sorry you are going through this and i understand how confusing it can be. i think you should really focus on yourself and with school. he is being selfish in the sense that he wants to keep you only for later and wants a relationship with you only on his own time, which is very unfair for you and you shouldn’t let him treat you like this. i believe you deserve a better person who is willing to be with you whole-heartedly and to put you first. i am sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but i truly believe that you should focus on yourself and just take a step back and re-evaluate this situation. it is hard but you will be able to get through this :) november 15, 2014, 1:52 am gracie my crush always does the following(according to my very observant best friend and myself); -he always stares at me -he always smiles at me -always laughs when around me -checked me out three times -went behind me really close so i could feel his body on mine -found out my sister once told me to kill myself (happened a lot more before but he only knows about the one time) and got really pale -sat in front of me during lunch once and i wasn’t eating so he looked away and bit his lip -when my tank top was falling he was looking at my chest and biting his lip -he saw me writing something and looked at the top where it said “suicide notes.” and he got pale again -i was showing my friend something on the computer (demi a quote she said) and he leaned foward to see what i was showing her and smiled a little ( he knows i’m a little [i am actually a lot insecure but he doesn’t know] and it said “i like my booty and thighs. i have curves get over it.) -he sits in front of me in science and during a video he kicked my feet twice lightly and in the same video it said turquie so his friend whispered something in his ear and he blushed and looked at me -he asked me if i still liked one direction and when i nodded and said my name is gracie horan he looked kind of (just a little) jealous – during a project he stood next to me and brushed his arm against mine (he always does that) – he always stares at me when i walk into the room in the morning – i went into my ela class shouting larry shipper (don’t hate me i ship elounor too) he looked at me and 5 minutes later i looked at him and he was looking at me still – at the beginning of lunch he was walking towards my friend and i and staring at me the whole time he was talking to us – one day last year he was absent in math but came back to school for the afternoon and when i was walking to get my paper from the printer he asked me if there was any homework and because i finished it i said no (each time i think i’m done with what he’s been doimg for the past 3 years i’m like nope there’s that one too lol) – there was an activity in math where i had to pretend to be a guy named dally winston from the outsiders the next day he math he wouldnt stop talking to me about it and my friend teased me about of course she was in our math class wiggling her eyebrows when he kept talking october 27, 2014, 8:35 pm gracie torque sounds like twerk btw october 27, 2014, 10:46 pm sara i got a match on tinder with this cutie on july 3rd. he’s absolutely adorable, and honestly the most amazing man i could ever imagine god sending me. there are only a few things that make this too good to be true: 1) i’ve never dated a younger guy before just for the maturity sake, i am a very mature 23 year old and i’ve been in and out of long and hard relationships and i am no longer up to playing games. he is 22 and though it scares me, it seems he has his life figured out and he is pretty darn mature. 2) he is in the army. i love our troops and honestly i am really into this guy and i would gladly support him in whatever, but we all know the army guys have a reputation for being dogs. 3) he is getting out of the army around may and is moving to a different state. i know this already sounds crazy and believe me once finding all of this out i expressed my concerns to him early on. i plainly said i think you are a great guy, but frankly i’m not up to getting to know you in that type of way if you are moving next year, because i don’t want to fall in love with you and then there be no us after may. he basically said he is not the type to fall in love and leave and to give him a chance so i did. the first week he wanted to meet me and of course considering i hadn’t been talking to him that long i was too shy and told him i was busy. he left for 14 days on leave visiting family and friends and then once he got back we kept trying to make plans and things kept coming up on my end unfortunately. i constantly apologized and would try to still meet up on another day, well finally we got the chance to meet, and i swear if you could fall in love on a first date i was probably there. this guy was everything i’ve been praying for and he is absolutely more than perfect. the date was amazing and of course i did something i have never done before and i let him stay over. i’m never that type of girl and i assure you nothing went on but a bunch of snuggling. (perfect date). he seemed just as into me as i was into him, he constantly texted me and complimented me, it couldn’t have been any better. then all of a sudden i noticed this other girl on his fb, instagram and snapchat. i tried not to worry because he hasn’t given me a reason to, but due to my last relationship full of being cheated on i can’t but help to worry. this girl eventually ended up being his number one on snapchat, still not a big issue right?! well we made plans for that saturday but the closer it came to it he began to become distant, he texted me friday saying how much he hated his job and how he had punishment on saturday for the army and wouldn’t be able to see me. his punishment was a 24 hr duty, well later saturday when i got home and got on facebook i saw this picture of him at a white trash bash. the party was just a small gathering of him and his buddies with a few of their wives and gfs, but still i felt like i had been lied to and blown off. i waited for him to text and basically he fibbed about it i believe and i just went off. i explained that i am an understanding girl and that if he had plans all he had to do was explain the party came up and could he see me sunday or even invite me to go. i mean i wouldn’t have cared just don’t blow me off and don’t lie to me. well he apologized a million times and i told him to drop it and he continued to apologize so i believe he was sincere about it. then he made plans to see me sunday and of course right before he left he got a migraine (he gets them all the time and takes medication for it) so i just tried to dismiss it in my mind as the truth. i still felt he was being distant that week and i confronted him and just basically said look you know i am really into you (we’ve both already admitted it) but i just want to be sure you are even looking for anything considering you are moving possibly for good next year, because i don’t want to fall for you and you not even be interested in having anything. he replied back,” i want to see where things go. i really like you, but i’ve had relationship mess up fast in the past and i don’t want that to happen to us.” so i tried easing my mind a little. we ended up seeing each other that friday and i hate to admit it because i’m seriously a good girl, but things kind of went too far and we slept together. i regret it sooooooo much because that’s just not who i am. it wasn’t either of our intentions as we’ve both only prior been with 3 people all super long relationships. after that he seemed to be a lot better, we they have been super busy at work and i seriously am a very understanding girl, but he just seemed to fade away again, i confronted him the past friday once more, because i am a straight up girl. i plainly said look i think you are an amazing guy but i don’t feel you are that into me, and that’s fine if that’s the case and once again he assured me he is into me just super busy. he said he will put in more effort and he promises after all this training we will spend lots more time together. here is my thing though. as you all can tell i fell really fast for this guy, i feel like i’ve known him my whole life and i am serious about him. i have already thought about careers i could do with my degree if things worked out and i moved with him. i know it sounds a little crazy but seriously i feel like god sent him to me. now on the flip side, i believe he is a great guy and he is sincere but honestly i have been hurt so much before i feel like maybe he is just saying that to appease me and that in fact he maybe likes me but definitely isn’t looking for anything. i just believe if a guy is into you that he will make time to see you. and we’ve been texting for 2 months and we’ve only talked on the phone a handful and face timed once and only hung out 2 times. i am beginning to get super bummed and i feel like i am getting mixed signals. i am so scared because i know i am falling super hard super fast and i don’t know what to do. i like him entirely too much to quit talking to him because i already couldn’t imagine my days without him, but i don’t want to be strung along to fall in love and then after may there be no more me and him. please help me!!!! =(( september 17, 2014, 11:19 am lou this for guys only. the truth is that if a woman is interested in you she will find a way to make you aware of it. if you do what the writer says you will do if you are interested you will be dead meat. the choice is made by the woman, always. especially in the case of very attractive women. in fact, the more attractive a woman is the less obvious you should be about your interest. nothing is less attractive to a woman than a man she knows she has conquered from the start. remember this, from the moment of meeting her nothing will ever happen between you two that she does not want to happen. deal with it because it’s true. we all know the old saying that ” it’s a man’s world “, right ? wrong. when it comes to the world of romance it is exactly the other way around. september 5, 2014, 4:56 pm thomas chimera it seems to me that romance is the kind of thing that happens — more times than not — at fir st sight. you can build to it like i suppose is the adult thing to do, but to me the whole scrambled eggs of it is less a reasonable thing in your head than it’s some form of cupid’s magic. of course if the magic dust does at first favor you with it’s presence, despite man’s innate efforts to mess it up, somehow the sleight of hand just never lets that damn rabbit in the hat ever die. fred. september 4, 2014, 8:57 pm dharani hi guys!!!!!am in big confusion,pls help me on thz,am loving one guyz,he also accepted it,we used to chat at late nights,we continue thz fa one month,but now he is telling me”we stop talking fa 6 months” i dono what to do,bcoz i really love him a lot,wat to do guys??!!! september 3, 2014, 8:22 am ct well, you could start by putting the f—ing cell phone down for a few hours a day!!!! god!! you text so much it has taken over for your actual language!! you abreviate thz, and fa, whatever they are….if you meant “this” for “thz” you’re way off the mark, and yet you don’t abreviate “months” (mos.), or continue (cont.), among others. i’ll give you the benefit of the doubt because it very likely that english is not your first language – i hope!! october 20, 2014, 10:33 am ct i mis-spelled “abbreviate”. oops! october 20, 2014, 10:36 am jessica i’m looking for insight i’ll almost certainly never obtain from anyone other than the very person who has perplexed me for over 30 years now! yes, 30 years! this man has to be the shiest person in the world! when a mutual friend introduced us back in the ’60’s we were both 20-something and single. (he asked her for introduction to me.) i had been involved with a different man for about 3 years but he was gone for several months establishing a business when i met mr. shy and we started seeing each other. our mutual friend warned me that mr. s. was abnormally shy (but only) with women. i could tell and tried to reassure him with smiles, body language even though the man barely said a word all the times we were together. (btw: we were never involved sexually.) without seeming full of myself, i need to say that i was unusually attractive and never lacked for guys falling all over me. needless to say, i was not used to a man who just smiled at me like he could eat me up, and kiss me a few times, but never ever talked about anything. he had everything a man could wish for so i am completely baffled as to why he should feel shy (scared?) around women. and, although he was quiet and well-mannered, he did not appear bashful or socially uncomfortable with others. after a few get-togethers, i became very flustered as to if he truly liked me or if not, why he kept seeing (only?) me. in my frustration, i made a couple of really, really, bad choices. the first one: after an evening of social drinking & music, i told him the only reason i was seeing him was because he reminded me of my boyfriend (they did look almost identical except for height). that wasn’t true at all but i just wanted to see his reaction. he didn’t show any!!! just kept smiling that beautiful smile. the end to our relationship(?) came when his band had one last gig and he said: “you’re going to be there, aren’t you?” i looked at him and replied: “i don’t know. good-bye mel.” i chose to not attend the last session deliberately. i figured if he was interested, he’d call and ask me why i wasn’t there. well, he didn’t call. our mutual friend was present at his last performance and he asked her and she told him what i had told her earlier when she wanted to know why i wasn’t joining our girlfriends for our usual friday night out: “i have my reasons.” det var det. in all the years since, i’ve never even once run into him in this medium-sized city we share. i’ve tried to get information about him–if he was married, children? hvad som helst. but there are no records that show he ever married, divorced, was widowed, had any children and, in fact, a friend of a friend who knows him said mel has never married. we’re both old now. he lives only about 5 miles from where i do–each in our own homes. i married the old boyfriend because he insisted on getting married which was not what i wanted but i figured i ought to be doing what all my friends were doing but that was also a big, huge mistake. i divorced him within 3 years of the so-called marriage and reared our child practically alone. i’ve dated a lot and been socially active, but i’ve never remarried and, in my old age, realize i still love mel. i don’t want anyone but him. is it possible to be sooooooo shy as to live your entire life alone? never marry or have family? surely that isn’t normal. i’m beginning to toy with the idea that perhaps mel’s shyness is much more severe than just bashfulness–could it be a form of autism? or some other complication? i feel bad he has (seemingly) missed out on so much love and intimacy at the same time i feel even worse imagining what a loving life we might have had together. is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? –jessica august 24, 2014, 5:53 pm tacara-mi #1. instead of all the hinting and trying to decipher “signals,” just ask him. if he likes you he’ll tell you. if you like him, then tell him. stop playing the games and be straightforward. august 24, 2014, 2:43 pm amanda ok so there’s this guy i’ve known for a few months now and we hang out at school at couple times a week, there was recently a game and he won king so i took a picture with him and when we hugged he pulled me really close to him like he jerked me into him. then there was a dance the next night we got more pictures together the first time he kinda hid his hand under my arm and touched me breast and the second time he put it right under but still touched it. then we met up at school a few days after and he was staring in my eyes for a few minutes and he started blushing and froze up. i think he likes me but it’s hard to tell because we’re 3 years apart so i don’t know if he likes me. i been thinking about asking him out but i just want to make sure he likes me and if its a good idea. march 15, 2015, 9:49 am sarah what if he is always acting strange around you, listens and remember about the things you have to say but has a girlfriend. he could be spending time with her he even said he doesnt get a lot of time with her but spends it with me instead. i dont know what to do. august 5, 2014, 3:30 am april maybe he likes you more than his girlfriend and wants to go out with you instead november 15, 2014, 12:00 pm toma i need advice . me and my ex boyfriend . and then he abruptly broke up with me . and then i found out from his and i bestfriend that he started dating his best friend . and my ex boyfriend and i had a healthy relationship . and then i also learned from our common best friend that my ex is confused about who he likes more , me or his best friend . i don’t know . what to do . help ! please august 2, 2014, 7:00 am maria gomez i just started talking to this guy which i forgot all about but he found me on facebook i really like him but im so confused about his feelings for me he had not text me for 3 days so i decided to text him and tell him it was obvious he didnt like me in a manner i did him so that we would remain freinds that if he needed a freind to talk to i would always be there for him anyways he text me back put a sad face crying and asked if i was dumping him its things like this that makes me so confused about his feelings i asked if he was back with his ex which i know hes not happy at all with but he doesnt respond to my question and when i tell him he was posibly with some other girl he tells me theres no.other girls could you tell me what this means july 30, 2014, 12:15 am ken you’ll get further confirmation of this if he remembers the things you told him: where you went to high-school, your major in college, the name of your first pet – and uses the information to hack into your bank account. july 27, 2014, 10:16 am marty mannor can this ever be rectified? i am a woman, 73. in my mid-twenty’s, through a mutual friend, i met and dated a single man my age. it was an apparent mutual attraction but i got impatient because the man is incredibly shy around women and i couldn’t get him to talk much or express himself. in ignorance and inexperience with this kind of personality, i made a couple of big mistakes in trying to get him to make his feelings known to me. in so doing, i stood him up on a night of great importance and i never heard from him again. i have been kicking my own butt for 50 years! i still love him, even after marrying, having a child, and divorcing another. i have remained single since my divorce 43 years ago and, as nearly as i can tell from asking around, checking public records, etc., he has never married. we live in the same town, not too far from each other; we’re both retired successful business people who’s homesteads reflect our compatibility. i’m sure he will never, ever contact me and i’m too unsure of myself, embarrassed, etc., to contact him. is there any hope of us ever getting back together? i would like nothing more than to live the rest of my life making him happy. nogle forslag? please email me with your thoughts. july 26, 2014, 7:19 pm prayed up so 2001 new divorce meets hot guy tells him don’t fall in love . he is younger than me i didn’t want to give him a ready made life i wanted him to live and then decide. this worked perfect for five years no strings i had boyfriends during that time i’m sure he dated but we were just comfort and passion. we finally talked about dating for real after six years. he told me of his last dating experience in which he was stabbed hate to say she was crazy she stabbed him went to jail .. he is a gentle guy fast forward we are happy happy . he and i are supposed to meet out and instead i get a call that he can’t see me he is having a baby. crazy stabbing girl was five months pregnant. i said good luck prayed for him and stayed away. we ran into eachother and just froze i pretty much ran away from him. he called right away it was crazy to have those feeling and not act but we didn’t . we did stay in touch a year later they broke up we were together since then it’s just been he keeps falling for her suicide crazy bullshit he goes back thinking it’s good for his child we see eachother all the time she knows she has always known about me. so now i’m the homewrecker and everyone’s heart is broken . he wants to be with me i’m his happiness but the guilt and the games the things she says to his child it’s just eating me up. i have prayed and trying to leave it alone. july 17, 2014, 8:32 am dan the crazy girl probably has a cluster b personality disorder. your guy friend needs to have as limited contact with her as possible, and needs to start collecting evidence so that he can get full custody of the child. he needs to do it now before he ends up in jail or dead!!! october 17, 2014, 11:59 am caitlin i’ve read all the emails and tried to understand the guy i’ve been talking to. we have actually discussed this and he flat out told me but it seems that he really don’t know what he want truthfully. he told me he wasn’t over his ex fiancé and he does like me and has since high school also i understand that’s happen, hes busy at work or i’m at work. i don’t text him all the time first most the time he texts first. i really like him and i’ve never liked anyone ever(liked the thought of some guys) but i don’t want anyone else and that i just want him but i can’t wait forever. i believe him that he’s not over his ex, but here’s the kicker he’s brought up the topic of having children with me. july 15, 2014, 3:24 pm caitlin i’ve read all the emails and tried to understand the guy i’ve been talking to. we have actually discussed this and he flat out told me but it seems that he really don’t know what he want truthfully. he told me he wasn’t over his ex fiancé and he does like me and has since high school also i understand that’s happen, ge’s is busy at work or i’m at work. i don’t text him all the time first most the time he texts first. i really like him and i’ve never liked anyone ever(liked the thought of some guys) but i don’t want anyone else and that i just want him but i can’t wait forever. i believe him that he’s not over his ex, but here’s the kicker he’s brought up the topic of having children with me. july 15, 2014, 3:24 pm katlyn yes, i would like to know how to tell if a guy likes you through texting. there is this guy i like and there is a chance he likes me too. but the only way we talk is through texting. he lives 30 minutes away and we both work. and he tells me im cute and funny and we send the little kissing emojis to each other. but…. idk. Vær venlig at hjælpe mig! july 12, 2014, 5:09 pm amber i have been with this guy for 2 months. i think i’ve already fallin for him but i don’t know if he feels the same way. we met online and we live in the same town. i messaged him on a website and in a day i heard from him. we stayed up all night talking and the very next night he took me out on a date. but after that i didn’t hear from him for a week than when i finally got a hold of him he said he had a family problem. which i understand and forgave him. than we talked all the time. he’s a truck driver and he’s gone for a week at a time which i’m completely fine with. he would text me when he woke up, called me all the time, and we would talk for hours but that’s when he was on the road. he’s been home for three weeks now and i’ve only seen him twice. he says he wants to be with me and wants to be together and sees us being together for a very long time maybe even getting married and have a kid. but when he’s home its like i don’t exist and i have to text or call him to be able to talk to him. we make plans but something always seems to happen on his side. i haven’t heard from him for a week and its like the second or third time that its been a week that i haven’t heard from him. ive met a few of his friends but not his mother he says he wants us to meet. i have talked to his mother over text tho but it was really just her saying he was asleep and she would have him call me when he woke. and she knows that were in a relationship. i just feel like he’s not interested and i could really use some help please. please help me? :( july 5, 2014, 3:06 am kathleen i have been talking to this guy for a few months. we met at work and had a connection from the start. we had some of the same friends, so when i was with them he was there to. we would be near each other almost the hole time. we become closer as friends. i began to get feelings for him. one day i just told him, i mean what’s the worst that could happen, he doesn’t like me back. he ended up saying he did like me to, but wanted to get to no each other more, and he didn’t want to be in a relationship at the time. we got even closer. we could tell each other everything and everything. we talked about possibly being together in the future but he wasn’t ready yet. he asked me to be patient with him. he said he wasn’t talking to anyone else just me. he had a bad day one night and he asked if i could go for a walk with him, i did. this was the first time we hung out by our selfs. we bumped into each other a few times. i played the i’m scared card cause it was dark out and there was a noise. i grabbed his arm and he smiled at me. we ended up holding hands the rest of the night. he ended up walking ahead of me for a second and i said don’t leave me. he told me he never would. he would say little cute things like that. after i left he texted me and said that my hand felt amazing in his and that he had a great night. he told me he appreciated me being there for him. i told him whenever he needs me i’m here. went on another walk a few days later and this time he kissed me. when i left he called me and said he missed me already and wish we had more time to spend together. we talked all night. one night he told me i was perfect and between us it always will be. we used to talk all day, but the past few months he has been distant. we only talk at night now. but not every night. and it seems like it’s always sexual. we haven’t hooked up yet, but have talked about it. and every time we try to make plans to chill the next day he never texts me back with a time to meet up. i asked him if we’re ok, and if he actually did want to see me and he yea he does. we made plans for the next night after i got out of work. i again texted him and he never texted back. he texted me at 4 am saying he was sorry he didn’t hit me up to chill, and that he wanted to make it up to me. at this point i’m not getting my hopes up with seeing him. that was a week ago and i still haven’t seen him. at this point i feel like he doesn’t even like me anymore. i no that we aren’t together so i can’t expect to be any type of priority. should i ask him what’s up, and if he still feels the same way, or should i just back off and let him come to me? do you think he has moved on? hjælp venligst! july 2, 2014, 10:32 am things are getting better. still working things out but i'm being patient and i keep reading your emails and the books i ordered. thanks for the help. i’m learning a lot. june 21, 2014, 10:35 pm al #6- his tongue is in your ear. june 21, 2014, 2:53 pm keke this is keke and ur are dumb if u let him put his tongue in ur ear shit i woukd let him lick my pussy ok dummy april 15, 2015, 2:27 pm jaz so i been dating this guy for about 5 months, in the start he was all about seeing me all the time we are now in a serious relationship and we’ve met eachothers families, he travels a lot for work… i’m just wishing he was more attentive as far as communicating more sometimes i feel like we are strangers like talk for about 5 mins a day we both have busy careers but after work. idk he hasn’t been in a relationship in over 5yrs and i’m the 1st girl he gave a chance to… he’s use to hanging with his friends and working… not making a woman his priority. i’m amazing to him i just want the same effort put forth. what do i do trying to have patience only because he not use to it but am i kidding myself? june 17, 2014, 4:27 pm middi hello jaz, i sense your pain and frustraion as i read your post. i would encourage you to talk with him, and let him know how you’re truly feeling. point out all of the good things that you love about him, and let him know that you appreciate him. remember men are more sensitive then us women..so tred carefully, but be 100% honest about how you feel. he sounds like a good guy…perhaps he’s not aware of how you are reallying feeling. let him know that you’re hurt that he’s spends more time with his friends and career than you. tell him to ‘put himself in your place’…”how would he feel it things were reverse?” since people are rasied differently and come from various walks of life…he may not be ‘aware’ of his actions. so let him know how you feel, and telll him *what he can do to make you feel more loved, etc. now i will throw this in here: he may not really be interested in you anymore, and just doesn’t want to hurt your feelings buy telling you he’s over you. he may have another girl; or it could just simply be that he has so much stress at work, that he needs to hang with the guys to relieve stress, and doesn’t want to bring that stress over to you. i only mention that because he only has 5 mins a day to talk to you??? that doesn’t sound right. no matter how stressed, or angry, etc., a person in a relationship is…they will speak more thatn 5 mins a day. if you care about somebody..you make the time..because you want to…period! but this next part is key: just state how your feel..do not guess/assume anything & do not put anywords in his mouth. because he might take one of your fears and use that as an excuss to end the realtionship. so inconclusion dear..be honest…don’t be afraid. it’s better you get this out in the open quickly so the problem can be remedied, or you can move on. if the latter is the case…fear not, you sound like a very caring and loving person..you will find your true love! peace and blessing :) june 21, 2014, 6:37 am jaz hey middi, we are actually doing great we spoke and yes he’s trying to get use to having someone, he actually been amazing after we spoke and he feared loosing me our love for eachother is growing daily 6months in and i think we are growing stronger thxxx! july 15, 2014, 3:35 pm middi great news! good luck and god bless the both of you. keep the lines of communication open! :d july 18, 2014, 7:49 pm shaz hi middi, i see you’ve got really good insight in dealing with relationship. i need your advice… i have been living with this guy for a year now. he asked me to move in with him after 6 months of dating. i’ve met all his family members, attended family gatherings, etc. we’re planning on getting married this christmas. what i don’t understand is, sometimes when i am on duty travels, he makes plans to travel to other cities and let’s me know like on the day or a day before his departure. i also realised that he doesn’t give me gifts or take me out or remember special occassions. the funny thing is he hasn’t met my family. he talks of meetng them and made an effort but one the day we got into an arguement and just forgot the whole idea. he never talks about it again. last time, i saw a booking he made to fly to brisbane for 5days and this is around the time that i get to do my next duty travel. he hasn’t told me about this trip yet. aren;t people living together in a relationship not supposed to keep secrets? i don’t understand this… does he really love me? if he doesn’t then why does he want me to live with him and marry him even… i don’t understand this! please help me understand this person… january 22, 2015, 6:52 pm brian did any of you women ever consider that a guy may like you, even love you but prefer to be social with his guy friends? or even gasp! with no one? june 26, 2014, 3:21 pm middi yes brian, but there is a big difference between spending time with your friends socially, and totally ignoring your mate. for example; if he’s spending every weekend with his friends and only calling his girlfriend to talk for 5 mins a day with no face time(meaning meeting in person, not an apple device)…then there’s a problem. at this point she can either continue to be ignored, or talk to him honestly about her feelings (if indeed as you mentioned ‘he loves her’), or she can leave him and find someone who will spend time with her. because let’s face it, you date someone to what? spend time with them right? it seems for the lady i was trying to help, something’s not right, and a simple conversation with the one you love, would shed light on the situation. i hope it works out for them both. peace and blessings june 27, 2014, 11:21 pm jaz brian, when a man is truly interested no one can keep them away not even friends, most of his friends are in relationships as well. i agree he should always have his space and his boy time i would never take that away from him… healthy relationships require that. i would prefer my man wanting to be with me if not i think there is an issue no? july 15, 2014, 3:38 pm patricia i’ve been with this guy off an on now for a year.we lived together for 9 months. then he broke up with me. we wrote engaged he told me he was moving on and with another girl two days later. well that was in jan she went to jail in in april hr was at my door step that same say she went to jail we’ve been together off an on ever since we stayed together for one month as friends with benefits then i told him i couldn’t do it anymore and i didn’t want to see him. well three weeks went by he started calling and texting me again we got back together this time and we was just going tsee what happened ok until know we had a fight four days ago and i having talked to him told him to leave me alone i’m scared i’m being used until she gets out of jail which will be in about 4 more months if i knew he wouldn’t leave me as soon as she gets out i could be happy but i don’t know that and i’m scared love him because i think he’s using mr for sex. told him i cant handle being with him one month and being happy then one week sad then one month happy its to much back and forth i can’t handlevitvno more he needs to decide what he wants. and who he wants i’m so miserable without him my heart aching for him and i mids him so much don’t know should i give up or fight to be with him i have four months left with him irvwithout him i’m so hurt and confused as to what to do june 15, 2014, 8:47 pm middi my dear patricia, leave him. please trust me on this. he is using you. you’re instinct is right. listen to your “inner voice” it will never steer you wrong! i know it’s hard when you’re in love, but you deserve to be loved in return! an off & on relationship is no relationship at all. if he truly cared for you, he would stick by you and try to work things out. or at the very least..be honest about his feelings. and this ‘friends w/ benefits’ thing…there is no such thing! because a real friend would have more respect (sing it areatha! ;) for you and would never even think of using a friend period. i do beleive he is using you for ***, comfort, company etc., and is buying time until the other girl gets out. and he’s probably using her too! you see..”hurt people, to hurtful things.” he needs to do some inner healing work, but that’s not your place to help him do it. you see, a person who is well on the inside would never disrespect another human being the way you are being disrespected. i believe you are a beautiful, caring, loving person…put some of that love on yourself! ask yourself “why do i tolerate such blatant disrespect from this man?” love your self 1st, talk to somebody, heal yourself from the ‘inside out’…and once you do..you will attract the right kind of man into your life. i know you can do it! peace and blessing be unto you! june 21, 2014, 6:21 am nol thanks, for that, middi… very well said!!! :) january 22, 2015, 6:11 pm arabia asia is right. i ran into one of those a few weeks ago and he almost did my head in. i had to take some pretty hard drugs to get over him, but get over him i did, and fast – in just a few days. the experience has messed me up good though. to do it i had to become a sociopath myself and stop feeling normal human affection. future guys i meet may suffer due to this as i do not think i am able to feel towards males ever again. since the “i’m into you oh no i’m not haha” guy? i’ve turned into someone just like him and have this burning desire to go out and start leading men on and teasing them to flip it on them like this guy did, and cause a lot of destruction :) june 14, 2014, 10:38 pm middi my dearest arabia, please do not let evil men rob you of love, and a life full of happiness! yes there are bad men out there..but there are more good men then bad..that’s why this world (as crazy as it has become) is still in one piece. the good will always outlast the bad. please do not bring your self to a low level. you are better than that! plus, seducing men, and then ‘flippin’ it on the will get you killed. remember you a still a women. also know that women are emotionally, in intuitively stronger, and smarter then men. rise above the hate, fear, and anger you have, and shine like the beautiful bright star you are! as i mentioned in an earlier post : sometimes we “attract” bad things into our lives, because we haven’t dealt with certian ‘hurtful’ things in our past. somethings we may not even be aware of. so you have to ask yourslef : “why did i attract this person into my life? what did like about him? what did he give me that i felt i needed from him? although ‘sociopaths’ maybe hard to spot, there are always signs like body language & intuition. we tend to ignore the red flags when we really like someone, or are lonenly or have low self-esteem. the simple fact is that you allowed this person into your life..you attracted that person to you. i’m not blaming you. but the key is to find out why? then you can do the inner work and heal yourself from the ‘inside out” and attract the people that you really need and the ones that will truly love you! keep your head up! don’t let the wrong doings of others ‘taint’ your beautiful soul! peace and blessings! june 21, 2014, 6:58 am useni i like newmode becouse it talk about the real fact about relationship may 22, 2014, 1:13 pm asia sociopaths can do all this and not really like ypu. november 7, 2013, 7:21 pm luke and shy guys won’t, even when they’re interested, having said that the way shy guys desplay interest makes them seem awkward and creepy, so girls don’t like them. may 25, 2014, 10:18 pm middi hello luke, i can understand what you mean. but everyone at one point or another has to find the confidence to over come that ‘shy/awkward’ state. it comes down to real ‘self-esteem’. some people get it at home at an early age, others get it at school, some from mentors, and the rest through ‘trial and error’. the bottom line is; there are so many ways to get help and information on dating. but it takes time, patience and practice, and some people aren’t even willing to try. shy people need to be encouraged, and supported by true friends, family, etc. but they have to want to change 1st peace and love to you! june 21, 2014, 7:06 am laura yes, but they can’t keep that fake mask for long.eventually, their true ugly face will show. june 17, 2014, 8:30 am middi yes laura, you are so right! and that’s no matter how much we may like a person, you have to take your time, listen to your ‘inner voice’ (intuition) and acknowledge the red flags. there are a lot of lonely people out there starved for love and attention..and that could lead them to chose, accept and deal with the wrong people. be brave my friends…real love is just around the corner…but you have to think positive, work on yourself, and be patient in love. a lot of us claim to want the perfect mate…but are you yourself perfect? are you what the other person is looking for? the check list that you have for your ideal mate…do you have all of those qualities as well? if so, great…good luck. if not…”how can you ask for something, that your yourself can’t give?” peace and love june 21, 2014, 7:13 am brian yes but what you don’t understand is that they don’t care if you find out, by that time they have already notched their headboard and they are done with you anyway. june 26, 2014, 5:05 pm middi my dearest brian, all we can do is learn from our mistakes. the biggest mistake is sleeping with someone too fast. yes, we all want love, and we all want the feeling that comes from true ‘intimacy”. but like you said; some people will play the game until they get what they want. only by withholding yourself, and taking the time to truly get to know someone, will you weed out the fakers. the 90 day rule will weed out the bad seeds, so that the good seed will stick! that means, date without *** for 90 days, and if that person is still around, without pressuring you for ***, then you may be off to a good start towards a healthy, loving relationship. you see, those that seek only *** or as you said ‘a notch on their headboard’, aren’t brave enough to seek a loving relationship. they aren’t brave enough to face the fact that they want real love. they don’t know how to get it or accept it, because they have past issues that they are too scared to deal with. so they go for the ‘easy feel good fix’, then move on to the next one. they are so hurt and angry at themselves, they they don’t believe they need love. so they take anything to numb the pain. i don’t want to get into the psychology of it all, but learn from this. you deserve love, and we all need love. but love is sacrificing. and most people have a hard time with this. think about your best friend, or a close family member. when they **** you off, you work it out right? you all of a sudden become patient and forgiving. it’s not so easy to do with strangers right? why? because you took the time to get to know your friends and family members. so take time to get to know the next person you date. and don’t feel bad if you get dumped for not putting out early on. that only means that you just saved yourself from getting hurt/played, and you are also saving yourself for the one that will love you for life! have patience my friend. love is on the way! peace and blessings june 27, 2014, 11:43 pm brian i agree, and you just gave them the recipe. but it doesn’t take a sociopaths to simply be a hound dog, in fact i think most men for at least some period in their life play the field, and probably try to present any face you want to see in order to take you to bed. june 26, 2014, 5:24 pm middi the 90 day rule will ‘un-mask’ the bad ones. plus lots of talking, asking questions, getting to know the other person and key: get to know their friends, family, co-workers. reading body language is key. looking in the eyes, etc. you see, people with ‘something to hide’, will avoid personal questions, won’t talk about family, won’t introduce you to friends, won’t talk about their jobs, etc. even if they make all of this up and seem believable, if keep pressing, the lies will slip them up and the true will be revealed. the signs are there! and even if i’m giving you some sage advice, or ‘play by play’ info for bad folks to use..it still won’t matter, because evil never hides for very long. they only get away with it because you think you’re in love, you ignore the red flags. introduce them to your friends and family, and they will spot the fakers too! see, when people think they are in love, they just want to be with only that person, all the time. you need your friend and family to be the objective view; to see and pick up on the things that you’re to blind to see when your think your in love. common sense is greatly lacking on the world today, but never fear, as long as your are breathing, you can learn and grow. to your happiness peace june 28, 2014, 12:00 am brian middi i could not agree with you more on the 90 day rule. if you don’t want to be used you need to know how young men think. i have tried to tell my daughter this but young girls seem to think they know better than an old man :). or maybe she listened but just didn’t let me know she did. july 1, 2014, 12:45 pm

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